I always enjoy a high tea for a special occasion or an afternoon get-together with friends or family. Still looking for something special to present to your guests? In this blog, you’ll find inspiration and practical tips to help you host your own high tea.
It’s all in the name, but there is a difference between high tea and afternoon tea. When we say “high tea” in the U.S. or the Netherlands, we usually mean afternoon tea.
☕ Quick Breakdown:
Afternoon tea (the correct term for the fancy tea setting):
Served around 3–5 p.m.
Includes finger sandwiches, scones, and pastries.
Elegant and light, meant as a social treat.
High tea (more of a British working-class supper):
Served later (around 5–7 p.m.).
Heartier fare like meats, pies, and bread.
More of a full dinner served with tea.
In this blog, I use “high tea” to mean a dainty and elegant setup. The food is typically served during afternoon tea.
Tablecloth, runner, napkins
Always start with the table itself. I have a wooden table. It can be a great base. However, with my collection of tablecloths, I usually end up using one. This time, the green polka dots give it that perfect spring feeling.
Cake stands
To add some height to the table, use one or more cake stands. They’re great for displaying your treats and instantly make your table more attractive. I use glass ones. Cake stands can easily reflect the mood of your setup. Use copper or gold for a romantic feel. Choose rustic wood for a natural look. Glass fits every style.
Serveware
Small dessert plates, elegant cups and saucers; choose everything in the style that matches the mood you want to create. Flowers can bring a vintage atmosphere, while simple white tones offer a minimalist look. You can’t forget a teapot, and if possible, a matching sugar bowl and creamer.
Tea and treats essentials
Loose leaf tea in beautiful packaging, or for a luxurious feel, a bone china toile tea caddy. If you’re using loose leaf, you’ll also need a tea strainer. Use mini jars for jam and lemon curd. Depending on your menu, you could add a glass or porcelain honey pot with dipper. You may also offer a scone mix or macaron gift box.
Ambiance add-ons
Complete the experience with fresh flowers in a vase—think peonies, roses, or wildflowers—and candles in colors that match the flowers. A calm music playlist helps set the tone, and just like that, you’re ready to host your own high tea.
What to serve at a high tea party?
- Sandwiches (cut into triangles), like Brie and walnut, cucumber with salmon
- Vitello tonnato
- Fruit skewers
- Tomato and mozzarella skewers
- Scones with clotted cream, macaroons, meringues
- Fruit salad or tart, panna cotta
What drinks are served at a high tea?
You can stick with tea only, or, if it’s a festive occasion, start with a cocktail—or mocktail (non-alcoholic version). A mimosa (orange juice with sparkling wine, cider, or champagne) makes a festive welcome. For the tea itself, present a variety of flavors beautifully displayed, or simply serve a classic black or green tea. Eggnog with whipped cream is a fun addition (especially around Easter because of its color).
Bonus Tips
- Book recommendation: The Vintage Tea Party by Angel Strawbridge
- More about creating timeless elegance with neutral tableware here
- More about how to set the Easter table here
Enjoy your High Tea!
